100 days in Holland

My recipe for a Life full of Life, measured one number at a time

Hallo fellow learn-it-all 👋 Greetings from Amsterdam.

This week marks 100 days in Holland. A milestone I wasn’t sure I’d make it to. It has me counting steps, tomatoes, thrifted flannels, and new friendships. I’ve gathered the numbers, the flavors, the moments that add up to a sense of belonging. It’s felt natural to be here. Friendships are forming with ease. Events sprout. I’m staying warmer and going outside anyway.

✨ And a little teaser: next week I’ll be sharing exciting news about how my book will soon be arriving not only in your hands but also in your ears and your physical mailbox too. Stay tuned.

Now, let’s dive into letter 282 from a learn-it-all. Enjoy!

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❓Question to think about

What’s the past 100 days look like?
(What film would I like to show?)

🖊️Writing

100 days in Holland,
and still, I keep going.

🏡 Ingredients of Home & Heart

12 beds slept in:
3 hotels.
2 relatives lived with.
2 plant sits.
3 guest bedrooms slept in on a biking trip.
3 animals cared for.
3 raving reviews on Trusted Pet Sitters.
100 days in Holland,
and still I am here.

🥗 Portions of Movement

1,180,704 steps
115 km cycled in a day, a new personal record.
31 runs
9 Dutch Hoogland cattle spotted
17 Dutch cities strolled¹
2 pool swims
6 different bikes ridden.
0 accidents.
2 ocean dips.
1 ferry ride to the island of Texel.
1 running club relay race in Rotterdam.
100 days in Holland,
and still I keep moving.

💰 Money & Making Do on a Budget

10 days calling immigration.
2 IND appointments.
2 months waiting.
€405 fee.
1 DAFT visa.
€600 in rent.
2 coaching clients.
96 bonds sold.
6 second-hand stores.
Plenty thrifted:
3 pairs of pants.
2 thicks socks from Aldi.
1 cozy corduroy flannel.
1 Dutch bank account
1 museum kaart purchased
4 bonus cards accrued.
100 days in Holland,
and still I make do.

🍞 Flavors & Tastes

100 bananas
90 apples
17 plump tomatoes harvested.
1 homemade tomato sauce.
1 Aldi. 1 Jumbo. 1 Deka Markt.
6 Albert Heijns.
9 appel flappen homemade.
Countless pannenkoeken eaten.
1 favorite cheese: Komijnkaas
1 favorite bread: Maisbrood (with corn)
lost count of cheeses and crackers:
Estimate = 25 days.
100 days in Holland,
and still I taste it all.

✍️ Writing & Language as a Daily Staple

14 weekly letters shared online.
9 handwritten letters.
4 writing circles led.
3 writing circles joined.
1 Dutch language café.
? words learned.
A goal of 1 Dutch word a day.
So about 100?
1 audiobook recorded in Almere.
100 days in Holland,
and still I write

🎨 Spirituality & Creativity as Seasoning

4 borrowed books from friends.
4 libraries visited.
2 masses attended. 1 Dutch Catholic. 1 English Mennonite.
2 yoga days. 1 Dutch. 1 English.
2 meditation courses. 1 Dutch. 1 English.
1 creativity accelerator experience
1 fiction and poetry course
1 Artist’s Way workbook
1 live marketing course
reiginting the zest
100 days in Holland,
and still I create.

🫂 A Serving of Connection

15 internet friend IRL meetups
2 random run-ins with friends from Thailand.
2 fashion show friends made in a dressing room.
1 Thai massage exchange in Tilberg.
1 castle visit
1 trip to London to meet more Internet friends.
1 Dutch writing friend met at a German castle.
1 publishing friend made at Almere’s train station.
1 cousin’s 5th birthday party.
1 American friend visiting.
1 trip to the Rijksmuseum.
1 walk through the Hortus Botanicus.
100 days in Holland,
and still I long find belonging.

Many joyous dancing days,
and lots of nights crying
Longing and
Missing Omi.
And as it becomes frigid
I will not alter to a white walker.
I shall thrift, and move,
And knit and layer,
and wrap my fingers ‘round steamy mugs
And write,
(of course.)

100 days in Holland,
and still I keep going.

🎧Listening

Just Kids by Mat Kearney

Shoutout to

Grace Smith

for sharing her fun writing playlist in that helped me find this song:

frequently asked questions about my debut novel + writing process

🔍 Dutch word to define

oppepper

It means a boost, pick-me-up, or something that gives extra energy or motivation.

Example:

• A cup of coffee in the afternoon can be an oppepper.

• Getting encouraging feedback might also be an oppepper.

It’s used for both physical (energy) and mental (morale, mood) boosts.

🌟Quote to inspire

“Divide each difficulty into as many parts as is feasible and necessary to resolve it.”

—René Descartes

📸Photos

Peppered throughout :)

🙏Shoutouts

• to

  Jolleen Opula
  for her feedback on my upcoming snailmail project :)

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I am grateful you chose to fill part of your day here.

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Keep on learning 😁

Tot snel 🌺 🌺

Toodles :)

Jen

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P.S. #4 - Here’s what you missed. Last week I wrote about what I’m learning lately on the internet and in Amsterdam in My Season of Saying Yes

1. The 17 dutch cities: Middelburg, The Hague, Woerden, Utrecht, Gouda, Voorschoten, Leidschendam, Leiden, Haarlem, Texel, Amsterdam, Almere, Hilversum, Laren, Naarden, Muiden, and Amsersfoort. More to come :)